“Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
Double bind. Catch-22. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Let it go. Go with the flow, and Take eeeeassyyyyyyyy!!!
As Flip Wilson so eloquently informed us, "The devil made me do it".
Good Luck Randy getting it all together.